"You can't start the next chapter of your life, if you keep rereading the last one"
Breaking up with someone can be hard, but to get to the GOOD TIMES, sometimes we have to go through the BAD ONES. To lose someone doesn't have to be a LOSS, it can actually be a GAIN. Breakup is something that tends to break human heart, becoming difficult to heal. That's what we see and believe in, but in reality it's not. If you want to heal you can do within less time and if not then it may take years.
Breakup establishes the thought of that person is the best, and you can never get a person like him/her. We never try to put a question mark for what we think. If that person is the best thing in your life, then why did he/her leaves, giving your eyes, tears as a gift. Is that the definition of best. Is that someone that you actually deserve.
Some people think BEGGING in front of a person might be the solution. But remember one thing, if you BEG SOMEONE to be in your life, then that person NEVER DESERVES to be in your life.
There are THREE ways to OVERCOME BREAKUP:-
1. DON'T GO THROUGH IT ALONE- times like these, you should connect with friends in person or on the phone. Bare your soul. Time heals all wounds. And the more we are surrounded by our good friends, the faster our wounds close.
2. REVELATION- Focus not on what happened, but rather focus on your beliefs you have about the situation. If you have thoughts in your head saying "I'm alone" or "I'm always going to be alone" filling your head with condemnation, then you have to take an action to change that conversation. I know it's hard, especially during this dark hour, but don't blame, because when you blame you become a victim and give away your power. Just ask yourself "Are human beings perfect?", NO, "Are you human?", yes, then it's ok not to be perfect. Don't beat yourself up one bit. This is your journey and one day soon, God's plan will all make sense.
3. IMMATURE LOVE- this step is the tough medicine to swallow, but I promise, it will bring the greatest cure. It is to realize that somehow your love was immature. I do not say to make your worth feel uncertain. But see, true love wants that person's best. Possessive attachment wants that person. Even I say those words, many may find it disagreeable, because it's what ever song on the radio teaches us, it's the message of every movie that reaches us. Even the love stories that our teacher used to read to us. Because you see the truth is a healthy relationship is like owning a bird. You create a nice, luxurious nest with material bird, bath and beyond. You feed that bird the best organic food, non-GMO bird seed from bird whole foods. But you always keep that cage door open. That's for certain. Because you have to let a bird be a bird, and you have to let a person be that person. And if somehow for some reason they go and fly away. Do not get upset. Simply read again these facts. Because if your nest was made out of true love, then that bird will FLY BACK.
"Bad things happens not just to go through, but to grow through"
Source - "Prince EA"
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